Step 3. Wide Aperture! Wide Aperture! Wide Aperture!
That's right let me say it one more time, Wide Aperture! lol.
You want to know a key thing that makes other photographers portraits pop...it's wide aperture.
Wide aperture is the lower numbers f2.8/3.5/4.0. Depending on whether you are shooting a single subject as opposed to multiple subjects will have some sway over how wide you will go.
With a couple for example, if you want to shoot at f2.8 you will have to shoot from further away or else you wont get them both in focus. Again that's a topic for another blog.
Generally speaking if I am shooting one subject I aim to be at an aperture of 3.5 or 2.8.
This gives me the soft background effect (bokeh) and draw the attention right to my subject.
The distance of your subject from an object, such as a wall, will affect how strong the bokeh is.
Tip - Bring your subject a couple of meters off the wall, flowers, trees and so on if possible to increase the bokeh.